Spirits have different ways of letting their loved ones know they're okay once they've passed on. My family and close friends are into lighting. It all started after the passing of my brothers, Jimmy and Larry. My older brother, Larry, died from a heart attack in the late nineteen-eighties. Jimmy died in a car wreck in 1999. A year after his death, I began to hear from both of them. Whenever I mentioned my brothers by name, the light fixture in my living room would flicker off an on. It happened very time I mentioned Larry or Jimmy, or both of them in conjunction. Jimmy was also into television, much to my chagrin. I would be watching an old black and white movie on Turner Classics and Jimmy would switch the channel to "Sanford and Sons," one of his favorite TV shows. He did this at least four or five times in a row. Finally, I had enough and told him just that--"enough is enough." He quit switching the channels, but that didn't stop him from turning off the lights whenever his name was mentioned.
Then mama got into the act. It happened the day after she died. I was talking to my best friend and, naturally, mama was the topic of conversation. Suddenly, the light flickered off and on. I told my friend what had just happened and reminded her that the lights always flickered whenever I mentioned my brothers. We laughingly agreed that this would be our method of contact. Whoever went first would say "hi" by way of Thomas Edison. Even though we made light of it, we were very serious. You see, my friend had lung cancer and was in remission at the time. Three months later she was gone.
The day of her memorial service, my friend contacted me. I was eating dinner with her daughter and several other family members, Suddenly, the chandelier over the dining room table very slowly flickered off and on. This happened several times. I asked the hostess if this had happened before. She said no. I knew in an instant my friend was saying hello. Some people may be frightened by these happenings. Not me! It's just people I love caring enough to let me know they're still around an everything is okay.